Women are much more than just Thighs and Hips. If only more of them knew who they were. Sometimes I get embarrassed when I see the young ladies showing off there bodies to gain attention from men. Do they not know that they get the wrong kind of attention? Most men look at them as if they were easy, a slut, a hoe, or just a plain out freak. Men are sight stimulated, but that's not all we are. Men notice you regardless if you are dressed like a hoe or a respectable young lady, but they will approach you differently just because you are dressed a certain way. When somebody first meets you they don't know anything about you. So they go on your outward appearance 1^st. Once they get to know you they might think differently about you but most of the people you meet you hardly ever see that person again or very little. So that 1^st impression is important. Ladies, in order to gain respect from a man you first have to respect yourself.

The video girls should make women mad. It's one step down from prostitution from the looks of it but I could be wrong because who knows what goes on when the cameras stop rolling. Plus you are still selling your body. When the video is over we still don't know their names. But I did hear a couple of people mention them. They said " Man, did you see them Hoes in that video? Especially that light skinned one that was dropping it like it was hot. I'll freak all them hoes. Ever last one of them". They don't even consider you a woman or a lady, but just a hoe. I know, I know………………….It's tight but it's right.

To the fellas reading this. I know you are saying, " Man, you know you use to love to see those girls drop, and shake their tales and wear those tight and revealing clothes just like we do". And you are right but I also thought the same thing you thought about them too. We thought they were hoes, easy, not girlfriend or wife material, a hit and run, if she did that to me who else did she do it to, she must be a freak, a booty call, everybody's girl, if I start a relationship with her then the fellas are gonna pick at me and call me captain save-a-hoe, etc…………………………..You know we said this things fellas. If I'm lying, I'm flying! The truth is that we are sight stimulated but that doesn't mix with the way we think. For example, we don't like to see our mom, sisters, and female cousins doing things like we see in the videos. Why? Because we know the labels that are attached to you and nobody wants their mom or sister to be labeled as a hoe. But we never stop and think that the girl in the video is somebody's mom, sister, child, or cousin. Like I said we are sight stimulated but that doesn't change the way we think. We love the way women look but we will never be tide down, committed, or care about a woman who doesn't care about and respect herself. Most men are looking for a lady, a woman who respects herself and her body. Don't get me wrong there are some men out there who are straight up dogs and will cheat on anybody. But if you respect yourself and your body you will probably never have to deal with a man like that.

Ladies, respect your self. Your body was made for only one person, your husband. This goes for the fellas too. I know some of the ladies reading this are saying " Why Derrick didn't say nothing about the men too much"? Because if I can get the women to change the men will follow. Women, y'all just don't know how much power y'all have. Wars have been fought over a woman. Women are the cheese and men are the rats. If I can get the cheese the rat will follow. Anyway, like I was saying women respect your self and be a lady. If you have the skills of a video girl, save that for your husband and him only. He should be the only one who knows what you have and what you can do. Is that still respectable? Yep, because he is the only one who knows. Plus the bible says that the marriage bedroom is undefiled. Do you think he is going to tell anybody about his wife? Nope! Why, because you are his wife. Not his girlfriend, trick, girl on the side, or hoe, but his wife. If his wife looks bad, he looks bad because he chose to marry you so don't worry he will never tell. Women are more than just their thighs and hips. If she is respectable she becomes a lady.

P.S. This is something to make you think. What if every women in the world decided not to be in a rap video or porn? What would happen? Ladies can you see the power I'm talking about that you possess?