<![CDATA[PUA Seduction Advice]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm Freewebs <![CDATA[Ultimate Key To Satisfying Every Woman]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3349912 Most women aren’t satisfied with their man – even the successful attractive guys.  The reason is they don’t have sexual confidence – the REAL confidence that affects everything else.  I’ve put together a new course that teaches you how to get that INNER confidence, and satisfy your woman every time.

Don’t Blink

How many married women cheat on their men?  Go on, take a guess.

Well, according to surveys (and remember, these are just the wives who ADMIT it) the number is over 50%.

Wow.

With girlfriends, not surprisingly, the stat rises significantly.

And you thought YOU were bad.

Boredom – Your worst enemy

Know why?  Shocking as it may be, most women say it’s because they get BORED.

And they don’t only mean this-restaurant-again bored.

Usually, they’re talking about BEDROOM bored.

There’s a sad fact us men have to own up to: as lovers, most of us suck.

I know, I know, I can’t believe it either.

A few sad facts: most women don’t have an orgasm most of the time.  Quite a few women have entire RELATIONSHIPS without once having an orgasm.

There are even some women who go their whole LIVES without one.  Can you imagine what that’s like?

Also, can you imagine how long you’d stay with a lady if she couldn’t give YOU an orgasm?

That’s right, one night.

Women put up with it a lot longer not because it’s less important to them, but because they’ve learned to live with disappointment.

The long search for the ultimate O

Still, when they’re in an unfulfilling relationship like that, it’s not particularly strange that women would search for their sexual fulfillment elsewhere.  Hell, statistically, it’s probably happened to you – whether you know it or not.

But there aren’t enough guys who GET IT to satisfy the attractive desirable women in the world, so even the affairs are usually disappointing.

Perhaps it’s just the excitement of being naughty, perhaps the selection of men for purely sexual purposes (as opposed to relationship material), but A LOT of women get MORE sexual satisfaction from their affairs than their relationships.

Even if it STILL isn’t what they need.

See, here’s the thing.  And I’m going to be very blunt here.

Almost every man isn’t, well, a MAN.

They may look like a man.  They may talk like man (sometimes).  They may play one in their daily conversations, in their pick-ups, in the men’s room.

But in the BEDROOM, this is something you can’t fake.

Only a SUPREME sexual confidence is what does it.

Sexual Confidence

Listen, I’ve spent THOUSANDS of dollars (literally) trying to figure out the key.  I learned all the techniques possible –and a few impossible ones.  I became a master at impressing and attracting women – any woman, anywhere.

But that didn’t do it.  I mean, sure, I got to have plenty of sex with gorgeous women, but whenever I wanted…. something… DEEPER, it always fell apart.  I needed the
KEY.

After all my study and observation, months of conversations on the subject with a psychologist friend, and plenty of quality time with various types of women, I found the key.

Next level shit time

My new course, Blissnosis, is ALL about this.

It goes BEYOND anything I’ve taught before.

In the past, it was all about getting the girl.  That is OBVIOUSLY the most important first step – without the girl, you can’t get anywhere.

But if you want to KEEP the girl – or get even BETTER at cracking some of the tougher shells out there – you need to get ADVANCED.

We already know that over half of women cheat on their man. Of the rest, some won’t fool around because of strong morals, or simple resignation.

A VERY few don’t mess with anyone else simply because they ARE satisfied.

FINALLY.

The smallest percentage

A man who has TRUE sexual confidence – a kind of confidence that runs deeper than any other – you won’t have to worry about a woman drifting away from you.

She won’t be bored.  She won’t be faking.  She won’t want anyone else because, frankly, she’s probably never MET another man who has the confident presence you will.

Let alone been ATTACHED to such a man.

There are WAY more attractive and desirable women then there are men worthy of them – so most, in their heart, know they are settling most of the time.

They aren’t free to be themselves, because the men in their lives haven’t created the right environment for it.

Fantasies – an example

Women have just as many sexual fantasies as we men do – and yes, like all guys, women have some which are risqué.

But when their MAN doesn’t have the confidence and openness to tell a woman what he REALLY wants in his sex life, she’ll follow that lead.

Just one example, but a common one, and a very emblematic problem.

Truly confident men will LEAD, and the women in their lives will take on that same freedom.

Not only will you be completely OPEN, not only will you experience a wild sex life – the kind you, literally, DREAM of – but you’ll REALLY satisfy your woman.

Plus, you’ll help HER flower and experience HER fantasies.

You’ll help her become a complete person.

Become complete

But she NEEDS you to achieve this – because this sort of thing requires two people.  And you need to have the sexual confidence to take it where it goes.

How do you get this?  Check out my newest product, Blissnosis, to find the KEY that will make EVERYTHING possible.  Get any woman you want, keep her happy – happier than she’s ever been – and BOTH of you get to become more COMPLETE than you’ve ever been.  Change both your dreams to reality.

You just need to give yourself permission to become what you want to be.

You just need the key.

Derek Vitalio

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]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3349912#topBox http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3349912 Sun, 27 Apr 2008 15:50:00 -0100 <![CDATA[Melting Objections]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3349884
Questions from a reader:

My question this time relates to dealing with objections and hesitation from a woman after approaching her.  The main objections that keep coming up are:

1. “I’m sorry, I have a boyfriend.”

2. “Look, I don’t really know you.”

3. Look, I don’t really want a relationship.”
Could you please give me some ideas on what to say in these situations in order to reassure the woman and continue the pick-up?

Derek’s Response:

There is a simple truth about most attractive women: they aren’t available long.  They face a constant bombardment of passes, flirting, and general neediness in men.

Maybe only one out of a thousand guys who approach these women are going to be deemed worthy of their time – but considering an attractive woman is probably propositioned by an average of 50 guys a day, it doesn’t take very long for them to find a man.

Add in that a number of them need the affirmation of a relationship, and a number of them see being with the best of the litter – until the next guy comes along – as preferable to being alone, and a number of them are just bored, and a number of them want to have a boyfriend as a way to keep needy unworthy guys at arm’s distance, and a number of them will just say that they have a boyfriend for the same reason, whether it’s true or not… you see where we’re going here.

Finding a woman worthy of dating WITHOUT a boyfriend is the rarity, not the other way around.

Because of that, you can’t afford to simply write them all off.

Now that doesn’t mean I advocate poaching another man’s lady.  Far from it – actively breaking up a relationship is bad for two reasons: one, sooner or later you’re going to wind up VERYuncomfortable when a jealous ex comes after you: and two, a woman who trades up that easily is not the best bet for YOU going forward.

That said, very few relationships last too long, for one reason or another.  So when you meet a woman with a boyfriend, feel free to be playful and flirty and do all the other right things you’ve learned by now – but every time things threaten to get sexual, give a sly smile and draw back a bit, saying something about how bad she is, tempting you like that.

But ok, I’m getting pretty involved here; let’s step back a moment and deal with the initial “Boyfriend” comment.

The rules: be unfazed, be funny and cool with it, be, in fact, the same cool dude you’ve learned how to be, but even cooler because she now knows you’re not simply aiming for her panties.

Some examples of responses I’ve used to the “boyfriend” comment.

“Congratulations.  I have a dog, but you don’t see me bragging about it.”

“Huh? (puzzled silence)  Oh, I get it.  You’re incredibly attracted to me, and scared that I’ll cause you to be unfaithful, so you need to push me away.  It’s ok, I’m used to this.  I promise not to do anything tempting if you promise not to fantasize about me cleaning your pool.  Can’t we just be friends?”

“Me too!  (with a ridiculously overdone lispy accent)  We should double date!”

(silence, to quiet laughter, to a fun look) “You have a very high opinion of yourself, I see.  That’s good, that’s healthy.” (more quiet laughter, at which point she’ll give a playful slap to the arm)

You get the idea.  Don’t talk to her like a target – but like your sister.  Be playful, don’t be scared off, and you’ll get yourself implanted.

Then, once she’s single, she’ll remember you.  Bingo.

As for the “don’t really know you” line, I usually turn the tables with something like this:

“Yes, and I don’t know you either.  Frankly, I’m a little scared of you – I’ve already got too many stalkers to deal with.  But if you PROMISE not to follow me everywhere taking notes, I’m willing to give you a chance.”

Have fun with it.  NO ONE knows ANYONE the first time they meet, so play around with that fact.  Talk about YOUR fears to disarm hers.

And when it comes to the “don’t want a relationship” reaction, you should… wait for it… PLAY with it.

“What, you only want me for my body?  I’m tired of being seen as an object, and frankly I’m very offended.  You’ve got quite a hole to dig out from now.  I have FEELINGS TOO, you know!”

Obviously, this has gotta be delivered very tongue-in-cheek.

So what’s the over-riding theme here?  DON’T get intimidated, and DON’T act as if she’s trying to break off the conversation.

It’s all part of the game, andif you treat it that way and just go on being your charming self, you’ll do just fine with these objections, and thousands other like them.

Derek Vitalio

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©2006 Seduction Pick Up Seduction Pick Up Artist Seduction Blog Neil Strauss Seduction School David DeAngelo Seduction Advice Vin DiCarlo www.facebook.co.uk]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3349884#topBox http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3349884 Fri, 25 Apr 2008 19:31:00 -0100 <![CDATA[Becoming Super-Free And Aware]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3181470 Anyway, since this seminar promises to be almost overwhelming in the amount of personal improvement and personal influence methods and secrets, I wanted to give you the jump-start by giving you some drills you can get started on RIGHT NOW!

These aren't required.

But they will help you hit the ground running when you get here.

BTW, if you haven't booked a room and want some advice on that, call Ross: 310.822.5771)

Anyway, as I have said over and over, one of the major keys to living the life of your dreams is...

.......Recognizing and Getting Off Of Auto-Pilot!

Remember, most people are walking around IN TRANCE. And even more importantly, the trances they walk around in...trances of fear..of limitation...of doubt of lack....

..............Really Do Not Serve Them!

Actually, these trances DO serve someone. They serve the "power structure" that profits and feeds off of a society of weak, programmed, obedient and fearful robots, who will look to the "authorities" on how to live an "ok" life.

Getting Off Of Autopilot..Now..Today!

One of the big pieces of getting off of autopilot and having real choice, is becoming aware of your fixed paterns of perception, response, action, etc.

To develop this "meta" awareness is a powerful tool to peel away old, trapped ways of thinking, acting and responding and believing. It makes it MUCH easier to move up ANY learning curve for any skill set.

You see, technical skill IS important. But many people offer fairly good models for technical skill(how to sell, how to seduce, how to get fit, etc) in different areas of life, yet few people get real changes or the huge leaps they want from following this advice.

Sometimes, the advice is lacking(as is the case with my rip-off, cheap-jack, bullshit imitators and "competitors")

But just as often, even with good "advice" and good model for new technical skills, the person trying to follow this advice has a bigger problem: they want to really change an area of life that has been deeply emotionally challenging, evoking lots of fear, self-doubt, personal limits etc.

What can often happen is that the new advice, new skills, new ways of thinking, feeling, acting and believing are filtered THROUGH the old emotions, experiences, beliefs, etc

This means that people seldom consistently will act out the new skills from the right frame of mind. They will be fighting themselves, their old habits, tendencies, etc.

A metaphor I use is, if I give you a pair of glasses dipped in dog shit, EVERYTHING WILL LOOK BROWN. That is why methods that assist in building clear, unfettered awarness can help us keep old responses, beliefs, behaviors, choices at bay and "in the freezer" LONG enough for new way to take hold, and long enough for us to move up new learning curves because we can see the new skills, beliefs, responses THROUGH CLEAR EYES

This is doubly necessary when the new ways are very different from the old ways and require major shifts. Remember, the further something stands from how you are used to acting, thinking, feeling and believing, the greater the chance for HUGE leaps. Also, the greater the chance for old ways to leap back up, unless you have a practice and discipline to deal with them.

I'll say that again: practice and discipline. Onward... Anything you do to bring your habitual patterns into your awareness(without anger, fear or reaction) is useful. This is why I am challenging you to go from one extreme to another and to pay attention to flows of feeling that trigger all of it; the awareness of feeling flow is key to knowing when you are slipping into old patterns of behavior and is also key to designing in NEW ones!

How To Use Breath And Energy To Immediately Set You Free!

Does this make sense? Now, here is the next exercise to do: As you know, I talk alot about a spot on the body located about 2-3 inches below the navel, between the navel and the public bone. If you've studied any martial arts, occult or "esoteric" disciplines, this spot is called different names: the kanda, the t'an t'ien, the hara, etc. Without getting into intricate explanations, you just need to view it as a major power center in the body and a major awareness center as well. So....stand upright. Feet planted about 2 feet apart. Take a deep inhale, and as you do, imagine the breath is moving in a soft line of energy feeling down the front of your body and swirling in the t'an t'ien. It doesn't matter if it is clockwise or counter-clockwise. Find out which works best for you.

Exhale by pulling your belly toward your spine and as you do, send strong line of energy from the small of your back up the center of your spine, out through the top of your head.

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(By the way, you can go to the website and see a free video that will show you exactly how to do this...http://www.seductiontuition.com/speed-seduction


Click that link. Scroll down the page to the second to the last video. You will see me demonstrating this with myself and teaching it to a student.

And if you want to learn more about doing this, I highly recommend my Fear Into Charisma video/DVD. Just click here to find out more: http://www.seductiontuition.com/speed-seduction )

Onward

Do this breath about ten times. Now..as you go through your day, whenever you talk to people, focus on that inhale going to the hara, and put your focus and awarness there as you feel the energy swirl. You don't need to work about the exhale, except when you are alone, doing the ten breaths.

Out in the world, just focus on your awareness and breath in the hara. Notice how it changes your awareness and perception of people. Don't change anything else in your behavior. Just notice what you notice:

What patterns of response/behavior do you notice in yourself? What patterns of response/behavior can you notice in yourself, BEFORE they actually get manifested in your behavior...can you catch some "auto-pilots" that are now just considerations that you can actually put aside? Don't try to MAKE this happen..just notice if it does?

What patterns of response/behavior do you notice in other people? What specificly do you notice about how they respond to authority/power and how they exert authority/power with others? Can you notice which of their behaviors are "auto-pilot" and which appear more freely chosen?

Anyway, I look forward to seeing you at Speed Life, and I can't wait to also introduce you to the "Super-Team" of other amazing trainers.

Peace and Piece,
Ross Jeffries

P.S. In the event that you have NOT yet signed up for Speed Life... jeez...I don't know when or even IF I'll ever assemble this great a team of super-trainers again]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3181470#topBox http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3181470 Mon, 24 Mar 2008 18:34:00 -0100 <![CDATA[How To Get Unstuck And Going Strong]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3181427 Now listen; I am very aware that a first introduction to Speed Seduction® can seem overwhelming and also a little, well, kooky.

After all, if a guy walked up to you and talked to you the way I am teaching you to talk to women, you'd probably call the cops or punch him in the mouth. Perhaps if you were an extra
compassionate person, you'd refer him to a mental health clinic for counseling.

Look, I'm very, very aware that the ways I'm teaching you to communicate with women seem very strange. Further I'm here to tell you..

....THEY SHOULD SEEM STRANGE TO YOU!

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Is this a contradiction?? How could something that could help you have success with women beyond your wildest fantasies .. something that could take that old, rusty stuck door of not getting anywhere or having to "settle" and...

...Make It Swing Wide Open With Excitement, Passion And The Connections With They Kind Of Women You've Always Wanted.

Well, here is the secret in a nut-shell: women think about and process language DIFFERENTLY.

We men tend to process words and language through the left brain. But scientific studies, using brain scans have shown that women process the same words and phrases using the left AND right brains; that the same language that evokes little or no emotional response from men, evokes massive emotional response from women.

This means that the language that seems funny, bizarre or off to you, will be processed by women in a way that opens the deep, emotional, suggestive structures of their minds.

Now, don't get me wrong. All humans, male or female, are subject to great emotional response, based on symbols. Just think of the strong emotions that rush through you when you are traveling in a foreign land and you see the American flag.(This could be good or bad, depending what country you are from-since my students come from all around the world, I have to be careful!)

Of when you hear your countries national anthem. Or when you see the sun finally come out on a clear day after a long bout of darkness and rain.

These symbols and events evoke emotion, strongly, in ALL humans. It is simply that women also happen to have strong responses to language, spoken and written, that we men simply
usually don't.

What does this really mean for you? That if you can push past your initial responses that this stuff may seem odd or weird and instead, understand HOW it works, go out and give it a try, then....

....The Results You Will See Will Astonish You!

A couple of quick metaphors to help you understand this. When you go fishing, if you were to go fishing, would you bait the hook with YOUR favorite snack foods because worms or crawdads would taste bad to you?

No. You would bait it with what the FISH bites on and desires.

Finally, supposing you were driving on a country road, late at night, and a UFO landed right in front of you. Out stepped an alien from a very advanced species. You knew that if you could
communicate with him, he would unveil incredible technology to you that could solve world hunger, bring unlimited wealth, riches, and happiness to the world, end disease, and make your own personal dreams come true and more. He could unlock the answer to any question, but..

He didn't speak a word of any language on earth!

Instead, you had to learn to speak to him in HIS language, something that seemed at first like gibberish, hard to pronounce, and not making any sense to you.

Would you refuse his offer of a device that would teach you, in a few weeks, to speak to him in his own tongue, just because it felt weird and made no sense to you?

Or would you take his language machine, learn to speak to him in a way that HE understood and responded to, and...

...COLLECT TREASURES AND TECHNOLOGY BEYOND YOUR WILDEST DREAMS?

Now look: women are NOT aliens. But sometimes, the way they process language, words and emotions can make us FEEL like they are from another planet. Speed Seduction® will hand you that universal translator/language machine so you can take them on journeys OUT OF THIS WORLD!

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries

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]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3181427#topBox http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3181427 Mon, 24 Mar 2008 18:29:00 -0100 <![CDATA[What To Say To Meet Women ANYWHERE]]> http://www.freewebs.com/seductionpua/blog.htm?blogentryid=3181411 Today I received the following question in email:

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I was wondering Ross, if you can suggest some icebreakers or opening lines to initiate conversations with? Like when you see an attractive girl and you want to approach her but your not sure what to say.You want to say something but your not sure what and then you think about it to long and its to late!

You know something comfortable that girls will smile at and want to keep the conversation going instead of us constantly talking.

I want her to say something after I initiate it so we can see if there is some chemistry there or not. And being able to get past "Hi"..You know what I mean? Are there some opening lines you can suggest I can use the next time I go out that are appealing? That way I will be armed with some ice breakers and will lead to getting to know someone hopefully.

Could you please let me know at your earliest convenience?
Thank you. Dimitrios
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Ok. For Dimitrios and all of you reading this:

This all depends on where you find yourself and what you see the girl doing.

This makes sense, doesn't it?

If you want a line that works in every circumstance, in every situation, no matter where you find yourself, and what the girl is doing, I guess you could go,

Hi..I noticed you here and realized if I didn't say something .... I'd never get to find out what you're like .. other than what I already know.

When she says, "What do you know?"

You say, "That you seem like you'd be cool and fun to talk to. I'm...YOUR NAME HERE".

You see, knowing what to SAY to a woman is utterly and totally dependent on WHAT YOU CAN OBSERVE ABOUT THAT WOMAN.

It's not so much a matter of what to say.

No, the real secret of "opening" women is, knowing what to observe, knowing what to notice, and even KNOWING WHAT TO GET CURIOUS ABOUT.

Does that make sense?

Also, the approach to opening her might differ a bit if she is at a coffee house, quietly studying, as opposed to in a loud restaurant or party, right?

Why?

Because the CONTEXT she is in and what you NOTICE about her is going to be different.

If she's studying, and you notice that she's having a hard time; thinking really hard, talking to herself out loud or just thinking "OUT LOUD" in her head, it would NOT make sense to walk
up and ask her opinion about the great band that is playing or where she bought her cool bicycle.

So, I will say it again.

The most important thing, first and foremost, is NOT what you say, but the context she is in, and what you can observe about her and the setting she is in.

Now, many guys ask me about compliments. Should I give them? Is it a good way to first "open up" talking to a woman? If so, what should I compliment?

Ok. I'll repeat: it depends on the context, where she is, what she is doing, and what you NOTICE and can OBSERVE.

Look: whether it is opening her by using a compliment, or asking her a question about something, or making a comment about something she's doing or something going on in the environment, I will ask myself the same question, "What can I notice about this person that I can use to make a connection?"

Now, let's say I notice something about her that I DO find worth complimenting. My rules for complimenting are as follows:

1. NO sexual content in the compliments. That means I don't compliment on her great boobs, great legs, great butt, etc. No woman(no half-way SANE woman) wants a drooling lecher.

2. All compliments to be delivered with good eye contact(in fact, ANY openers are delivered this way) with a smile on my face AND in my eyes( I sort of make them twinkle a bit) and delivered with a MATTER of fact voice tone.

This means I don't over do it with my tone of voice. The compliment is delivered, matter of fact, with no concern on my part whether she will accept it, reject it or anything in between.

It is NOT about her accepting or rejecting what I say. It is ONLY about me wanting to say what I have to say, and any response she has is OK WITH ME.

Really, this is about the sub -text. This means, you see, that there is the surface message, the actual words I say. Those can be important.

But the sub-text is the unspoken or implied message I am delivering about me and how I walk through the world; that ***I*** take full responsibility for how I feel about myself, my situation, the events and circumstances in my life, and I don't need anyone to approve or validate my message.

Now, trust me. When you come from THAT place, and add in a touch of humor....

Almost Anything You Say Will Get A Good Response!

Notice something else. This is a great but different KIND of confidence. It's not the kind of confidence that say, loudly, "I KNOW I AM GOING TO GET WHAT I WANT".

It's more of a, "If I get what I want, that's fine and good, and if not, that's ok too. I'm having fun regardless".

Ok. Back to compliments then.

I prefer to compliment women on the following things:

1. How they carry themselves or how they move. I enjoy a woman who moves beautifully and/or who has great posture. I will tell them so, as follows, "I just wanted to tell....I think you have perfect.......posture. You just carry yourself beautifully."

Notice the ....... This indicates a pause in your speaking. I don't run
everythingtogetherintoonesentencelikethis.

No. I take....my....time. I pause, right before I tell them what I am going to tell them, so they will get curious about what I am going to say, and therefore be more receptive.

The pauses in the music are as much a part of the music as the notes, to use a metaphor.

2. How they are dressed. I like to compliment on style. So I will say, "I just wanted to tell you...I admire women with class and style...so I had to say "hi". I'm YOUR NAME HERE."

Note that this is what I call an IMPLIED compliment. I didn't' directly tell her I think SHE has class and style. I said I admire women with class and style, so I had to say "hi". That IMPLIES that I think she has class and style.

Why is this important?

Well, by implying the compliment, she has to use her imagination to interpret what you meant.

Imagination is an ACTIVE process, and so she doesn't resist the message, as she herself has to take an active hand in creating it!

Implied compliments are very useful in slipping past any resistance or skepticism to your message!

This, of course, is part of the number #1 rule in Speed Seduction®: Use your imagination to capture and lead a woman's imagination and emotions!

3. I will compliment on their "energy". I know this is a New Age, California kind of thing, but women are into "energy" or "vibes". It doesn't matter if you believe in it or not-although
I hope one day you will.

The important thing is, MOST women believe in it.

So if I notice a woman has a calm, radiant, happy demeanor, I will say, ""I just wanted to tell you.....I think you have..a beautiful....energy about you, and it just made me have to say
"hi". I'm YOUR NAME HERE".

Ok. Another major way to meet women is to say something funny; make an observation or comment that is humorous, based on something you can observe.

Now, again, I can't give you a "one line fits all" example, because again, it's based on what you are observing in the actual situation. So you will have to observe her, asking, "What can I notice that I can use to make a connection?".

Next, ask yourself, "How can I phrase that in a clever, funny way that gets attention and makes her laugh?"

This takes some practice. But you can get good at it.

Now, again, I hesitate to give word for word examples, because it depends on what you observe. But let me give you just a couple I have used.

One day, as I sat having coffee, this woman walked into the Coffee B*** and T** L***, a local coffee house chain. I noticed immediately that:

1. She had purple hair
2. She had purple fingernails
3. She had purple eye shadow
4. She had purple lipstick
5. She was wearing purple gym clothes
6. She had purple shoes (Yes, I wondered if her PANTIES were purple, but I didn't ask!)

Now, I could have just made a straight comment/observation, as in, "Wow. I see you like the color purple".

Instead, I chose to be funny. I said, "Hmmm..excuse me...but I'm getting a psychic message about you from the spirit world. Yes ... yes .. it's a bit fuzzy..hold on..hold on! Yes, the spirits
are telling me..YOU LIKE..THE COLOR....PURPLE.

Now, she busted out laughing and that started the conversation.

Another time, I was with a friend in a restaurant/coffee place and we noticed this very cute Asian girl studying her text book so hard, her ears were about to start smoking. She was
obviously having a hard time understanding it, talking to herself out loud and then obviously talking to herself in her head.

We sat at the table near her and I said, "Excuse me..can I ask you not to think too loud? You look like a loud thinker and my friend and I have something very important to discuss."

Now, at that point, she busted up laughing and joined in our conversation.

So again; I can provide examples with this kind of opener. And I can tell you how to come up with your own. But you are going to have to match your opener to what you actually see and observe about her-does that make sense?

Here Are Some Approaches I Do NOT Recommend-

1. Asking her the time, or for directions. It's trite, lame, and then where do you go from there? If you are terribly shy and can't even talk to women, ok, you can start here. But learn to do something else quickly.

2. Being insulting or in any way rude. I don't care what you might have heard. Insulting a woman is stupid. Any woman with choice is just going to move on. If she's kind, she won't insult you back. If she isn't, she just might give a verbal tongue lashing, and that's not the kind of tongue action you want!

3. Invading her space when I meet her. Once I make my initial opening, tell her my name, shake her hand; I then actually take a step back, away from her, to give her back her
space.

Women tell me that, to them, it demonstrates respect. It also indicates that, while I am strong enough to come up and meet them, I am also concerned with their safety, and they like
that combination. And finally, it indicates a challenge: just because she gave me a good initial response to my opener, doesn't mean she has me! It establishes a challenge, right away.

In any case, whatever approaches you use, bear in mind one more thing I teach my students: 90% of the time, the worst that can happen is NOTHING will happen.

The image of the cold, cruel, rejecting, vicious "bitch" really exists pretty much only in the movies. Most women, if they aren't interested (and most actually do respond positively
to a sincere, fun approach, even if they don't get romantically interested) just won't do anything.

They won't yell.

They won't shoot a dirty look.

They won't hit you or call the cops or the bouncer.

Most, if they just aren't interested, simply WON'T RESPOND.

So get this: the worst that can happen is NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.

Repeat after me: THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN IS: NOTHING WILL
HAPPEN.

I've approached thousands of women, literally. In all that time, maybe 5 instances have I ever been yelled at or have women had something truly vicious to say. And in those cases, I just
chalked it up to something that had NOTHING TO DO WITH ME.

Maybe they were having a terrible day. Maybe their boyfriends beat or abused them. Who knows?

I know if I approach someone in a fun, non-threatening, and sincere way, and they are STILL mean, THEY are the ones with the problem.

Again, this means it has to be ok with you if you don't "win" all the time. Or better still; define winning as having fun, polishing your skill, and learning SOMETHING about the person you are going to meet. That's within the power and ability of EVERY person, and most of the time, you learn something quite pleasant.

Ok. Enough on this. Hope this helps. I've shot a video series on this and am in the process of editing it. I WILL ANNOUNCE WHEN IT IS READY, so please don't call the office and
bug them about it, OK? They get cranky about that kind of thing and I'm all about...

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries

P.S. You can have all the success with women you've ever
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